I mentioned in a previous post how Jenelle is doing a lot of complaining lately. Yesterday we had a play date with Eme. My very wise neighbor, Jen, gave me lots of good advice on how to handle an ungrateful heart.
I had my first opportunity this morning. We were having pancakes for breakfast. Jenelle made a big face and complained about it then walked away to play. I told Curt not to make her a pancake. Jenelle could fend for herself. Curt and I were eating breakfast when Jenelle walked back in and said, "Where is my pancake?"
Mom: I didn't make you one.
Jenelle: But I wanted a pancake!
Mom: You complained about having pancakes. You can make your own breakfast.
Jenelle: (while sobbing and crying) I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I want pancakes.
Mom: You can have cereal or something.
Jenelle huffed and puffed about it, but she got everything to make her own breakfast. She even climbed on the counter to get the bowl (which she was uncomfortable with). She cut up her own banana. She was so unhappy about having to make her own breakfast. I had to turn away so she wouldn't see me smiling/laughing. I'm not trying to be a mean mom. I'm just trying to build character traits of contentment and thankfulness. These are things I'm working on as well. I've been grumbling a little too much myself lately.
I think we're going to have pancakes tomorrow. I have a feeling that she'll be happy about it.
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